Relationship Support for Couples & Individuals

Healthier Relationships & More Satisfying Intimacy!

 
Sarah simplifies things my husband and I find complicated. Things we make difficult, she makes easy. Even after only a few sessions, it’s clear to us she is a master of her craft.
— Ash
 
  • Have you ever wondered if your relationship could feel truly radiant?

  • Why is it that our romantic partners often get the worst parts of us, and not the best?

  • How can each of us take accountability for our relationship’s health, even when we feel discouraged or alone?

  • How do we rebuild trust after small hurts or disappointments accumulate?

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If you’ve ever asked yourself these questions, you’re not alone. Relationships evolve over time, and maintaining a deep, loving connection takes intention and skill. Whether you and your partner are struggling with communication, feeling stuck in dysfunctional patterns, or simply want to create a more fulfilling partnership, relationship coaching can help.

 

A Unique Approach for Couples: Gestalt-Based Relational Life Therapy

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As a certified Relational Life Therapist, I base my work on principles of Full Respect Living and Relational Empowerment. I view relationships through a living systems perspective, which emphasizes synergy among self, partner, and community.

With my background in Gestalt Therapy and MatrixWorks (Hakomi inspired group dynamics), my work uses somatic intelligence and mindfulness for intentional growth. I work with those ready for transformation—beyond mere support. I will challenge you to lean in when it’s uncomfortable, and I will do so with kind care-frontation.

By focusing on personal growth, your connection to others and your family of origin, I provide each partner with the tools and inspiration needed for a more satisfying, effective relationship.

My love for my clients is palpable.

 
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What We’ll Focus On:

  • RELATIONAL SKILL BUILDING

  • RELATIONSHIP TO SELF & ENVIRONMENT FOR A POWERFUL PARTNERSHIP

  • APPRECIATIVE INQUIRY

  • FAMILY OF ORIGIN PATTERN BREAKING

  • PARTNERSHIP DESIGN


Sarah guided me through a period of intense grief and deep trauma. I couldn’t have asked for a more caring and sensitive practitioner.
As a professional coach, it’s essential to have someone I can trust for my own growth. From our very first session, I felt safe to relax in her presence and trust her with my embodied, somatic experience. I especially value her rare combination of training in both Gestalt and Relational Life Therapy.
Sarah’s wonderful and gifted - I strongly recommend her!
— Charlie Awbery
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In a very short time, gratitude and appreciation returned to our relationship. Cycles of anger and defensiveness started to break down that had been hard coded into our interactions for years.

I can’t fully explain the magic, but that’s what it felt like. Sarah was a gift to our marriage.
— Alice & Jake
 
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Results After Working With Me:

ALIGNED WITH PURPOSE & INTEGRITY

RADIANCE and JOY

COMPASSIONATE RELATIONSHIPS

INCREASED CREATIVITY

GREATER CARE & ENJOYMENT

BRAVERY IN YOUR HEART

 

This Relationship Coaching is ideal if you or your partner are…

  • Wanting to experience more kind, satisfying and truthful relationships

  • Struggling to break toxic, draining and repetitive patterns

  • Yearning to grow and ready for transformation

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Private Session Coaching Rate

$160 per hour, for Couples and Individuals alike

Since I do not accept insurance, I offer a sliding scale, as needed. I am happy to discuss a fair rate— please contact me at LeadYourLoveLife@gmail.com.

Sessions Available:
✔️ Virtually (from anywhere)
✔️ In-person in South Boulder, Colorado

I typically work in 2-hour blocks—especially with couples. This longer window allows us time to dive deeper and for you to see greater, lasting results.

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Schedule a complimentary consultation.


TESTIMONIALS

OMG, the transformation my husband and I went through was absolutely astounding. We left every session feeling seen, heard, understood, supported, and with significant progress that actually made a difference in our relationship.
Such a genuine, loving, compassionate, guide. If you are looking to do real work (not just venting), I highly recommend working with her.
— Gemini

Sarah has helped us realize the depth of love we share. We are more compassionate, present minded, and forward thinking. We learned the value of big and small community, and we couldn’t be better prepared for marriage.
We believe Sarah is servicing the world through her calling to bring couples and communities together in companionship and celebration, and we can’t recommend her more highly.
— Kimi & Taylor
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What I love about Sarah is her presence of peace and compassion. Her empathy and ability to listen helped me feel open with her immediately. She is able to hone in on what I should work on and then teaches me the tools to help me communicate in a kind and open way, acknowledging when my adaptive child is kicking in. These tools are an absolute must in every relationship! I thoroughly appreciate working with her and definitely recommend her!
— Cara

Our time with Sarah has been absolutely eye opening. Sarah has given us the space needed to thoughtfully reflect on the relationships we have with others, and with ourselves. We can say confidently that with Sarah’s help we have greatly improved our ability to communicate with ourselves, each other and the people surrounding us.
— Aaron & Dayna
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Sarah is an intuitive and empathetic coach with a honed skill of deep listening. She’s supported me in navigating many aspects of my life: how to be an effective leader and facilitate challenging conversations at work, how to maintain my confidence in my artistic practice, and how to approach my most intimate partnerships with an empowered and open mind. I leave feeling grounded and supported.
— Kristina

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"Emotion is the messenger of love; it is the vehicle that carries every signal from one brimming heart to another. For human beings, feeling deeply is synonymous with being alive."

-Thomas Lewis, A General Theory of Love

 
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I have a shameless commitment to heartfelt honesty and connection. However, I am only willing to work with people who wish to let love into their hearts for the sake of their own growth. 

Is that you?

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HUMAN BEINGS HAVE AN INCREDIBLE CAPACITY TO:

CARE FOR ONE ANOTHER ...

SHARE IN EXPERIENCE ...

MARVEL TOGETHER ...

HEAL EACH OTHER ...

PARTICIPATE WITH LIFE MORE FULLY …

                 TO SHINE!